I meant to write this yesterday (May 25th), but ran out of time. I had been thinking about it all day though, if that counts for anything. (***actually, I tried to publish this the a week ago on May 26th, but the new Internet Explorer wouldn't let me, so I am now trying Firefox).
So, I can still remember getting the phone call from Ralph (well, Kelly took the call), letting us know that Debbie had passed away. We knew it was coming, just didn't know it would be so fast. It was definitely difficult news, despite the positives associated with ending a battle with Cancer. We were glad she would no longer suffer from the effects of the Lymphoma, yet devastated to lose her.
I recall going to work the next day, to prepare for a substitute for a number of day. I was in a somber mood, but wanted to go get things ready, so when I left I wouldn't have to worry.
I remember reminiscing, on the drive up. Though, I think a lot of it was silent. Well, Kelly and I were, the kids are never silent except when they sleep.
And, I can recall all the support and comforting words said by many kind people during those next few days. It really was nice. Thanks especially to Rhonda for coming all the way from Alberta. I know that meant a lot to Kelly. And it was great to see all the Family members, too.
Anyway, we took the kids out to eat last night, in remembrance of Debbie. As we sat we talked about what we miss about Grandma. The kids were talking about Christmas, and presents...Debbie always made sure they had enough. Kelly talked about how she missed being able to talk to Debbie everyday, and how her Mom would listen to whatever Kelly wanted to talk about (something I have not perfected yet!!). I'll get there though. It's true though, Debbie would talk about You and Your interests. I said I miss washing dishes with Debbie after a big meal. I still get a bit emotional when I am doing some dishes by hand.
Anyway, we all miss Debbie. I know we all think about her often. We know she is in a good place, and in good hands. Miss you my favorite mother in law.
Here are a few pictures of Debbie through the years
